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Mammamel
06-12-2007, 07:49 PM
Some things on my mind.
As some of you all know I used to teach. I taught newborns to age 3. I did some temp work in “regular” school and chose to teach preschool.
I chose to give smaller children a better start. To potty train, teach table manners, kindness and all the other stuff mother’s normally teach.
Here is what bugs me. On more than one occasion when asked I tell folks I taught preschool, I can almost see their respect drain from their faces. Why? We now know that the more a child is encouraged and helped to love learning at an early age (studies I have read say by age 5 is prime) the better chance they have in life. That means by the time the “real” teachers get them their window is already closing for future development.
Preschool is an important place. Granted most of the preschool teaching should be done in the home by the parents, but in cases where mom works this is not always possible.
Preschools need to switch focus from glorified babysitting (not the way I taught, tv was limited and lessons learned through physical play) to actual teaching. Yes a toddler can be taught numbers, colors, to sit and listen while reading a story and letters. I had a class of 19 children from the ages of 15 months to 35 months. I had them taught to stand in line, quietly, not to push or run, to sit in a group while we read stories. They were learning table manners, how to sit and eat properly, they could color and recite letters and numbers with prompting. We did 1 letter a week and 1 number. We added in colors. We had music and we learned to play nicely together. The children in my class were not the ones in the reports on how daycare increases violent activity. Violent activity was not allowed in my room.
Over the course of 20 years I raised my boys while their dad worked long hours, sometimes not seeing them at all for a few days. In that time I alternated between working in daycare centers and working out of my home.
I did not want to teach “real” school; because I saw the road to building a love of learning began way before age 5. I never made a fortune, but I did share a lot of love, and a lot of myself. I got to meet some fantastic young minds along the way as well.
I did not go to college for years to get a teacher license. Just because I did not attend a university does not mean I did not learn on my own. I chose to learn things I knew would help me teach the age group I chose to work with. Plus day care providers have multiple classes to take each year to keep their licenses current. I did not need trig, dance, Latin or other higher based education. Higher education does not make one a better teacher. Yes in some arenas, such as above grade 4 you may need extra training. Good teachers though are not made by much learning. Good teachers are the ones who love learning and love sharing in new ways what they already know. Good teachers are the ones who, like George Washington Carver, can take junk and make science, or math or what ever else they need. Good teachers are not the ones saying we need more money. Good teachers realize creativity is more important than money. Now true, good teachers should be decently paid. I vote we reverse the pay scales between athletes and entertainers with teachers. However a good teacher is one who would teach for free. Just like a good preacher is one who loves the WORD and so desires to share that he will do so, paid for it or not.
Those are the kinds of teachers we need in preschool as well. Those who teach, not for the pay check, but because they have something of value to share with the children in their care.
Go ahead and lose respect for me because I didn’t teach in a “real” school if you wish. You were not the reason I spent 20 years teaching. You are not the reason I would teach again if I was able. The little ones that come into my store are the reason I taught, and the reason I will teach in the store if the occasion arises. I did not teach so I could tell people I was a teacher. I taught because it was what I wanted and needed to do.

TJN66
06-12-2007, 07:55 PM
I sure wish that other people thought the way you do. The world would be a much better place. And anyone who teaches children has my undying respect and admiration.

Tammy

alyssasmom
06-12-2007, 08:23 PM
Mel,

You sound just like my mentor, Ms. Judy. She was my daughter's preschool teacher 15 yrs. ago and the reason I decided to become a preschool teacher too. She could be stern with the little ones in her class, but she was also the first one there when they needed her. Those kiddos really loved and respected her and I know the parents knew how wonderful she was. The school we worked at was run by an Episcopalean church and run on a shoestring budget. Many of the students were there because their parents couldn't afford any place else, but I have often thought how lucky they were to have landed at our little school rather than someplace else. I know Ms. Judy gave those little ones a great start, just as I'm sure you did too.

The reason I am telling you this is because your story just made me realize that I never told Ms. Judy what a blessing she was to our family. It would break my heart for Ms. Judy to think that nobody appreciated or valued what she did.

No matter what anybody else says or implies to you, you did make a difference in their little lives.

WENDY
06-12-2007, 09:05 PM
My two oldest have had the privilage of having wonderful preschool teachers. I could not have asked for better. They are amazing women. Always smiling, getting down to sit on the floor and play with them at their level.
These ladies cried their eyes out on the last day of school. They loved my children and I loved them for it.

jmgrizza
06-12-2007, 09:16 PM
AMEN, AMEN,AMEN--I did the same also for many years. I taught at daycare centers, other's homes, as a nanny, then in my own homes as my little ones were little (mine and others for many years). I pray that there are many more out there to do the same!!

Mrs.John
06-13-2007, 06:18 AM
I wanted to teach preschool, and did for a few years. It was then that dh decided I should finish my degree, and so I wanted to teach children with special needs. When I tell people that they lose respect here as well. I have come to a wall on more than a few occasions explaining to people that those children deserve to be in school just the same as anyone else. I agree it is not about the money. Anyone who teaching any child for the money should find a different job. I admire and appreciate preshool teachers. With so many cases about child abuse in the news from daycares, preschools, and well all schools, it is common to get that look today.

lavender
06-13-2007, 06:29 AM
Mel I think had I known you 6 and 7 years ago, had you been teaching, I would have paid extra just to have you near my children. Sometimes, it takes a person outside the family to make the children sit up and listen. Preschool teaching is teaching, IMHO. The Early Childhood Education degree offered at the local college enables a person to teach from birth to 2nd grade. That is a very important age to teach, to catch delays, to make an imprint.

b_reeves
06-13-2007, 07:52 AM
I too taught in a preschool for 7 years until I had to make more money. Just gets me that we pay millions of dollars to professional sports stars but I worked 2 jobs and finally gave it up because I couldn't make it on 6.35/hr and couldn't physically handle 2 jobs anymore. I miss it EVERY day and have continued to teach preschool ss at my church. This week is VBS and you guessed it I'm in the preschool area. I am physically drained at the end of each night but it is so worth it. I just had a conversation with a mother last night whose daughter I had in my ss class a couple of years ago. Addie is off to camp next week for the first time (she is going into 2nd grade) I mentioned that I will be a counselor with that age group and Becky almost hugged my neck. She is so relieved that I am going. Our goal in preschool ss is to teach the kids 3 things... as long as they know those 3 things by the time they move up to the elementary hallway we are content. Those three things are: God made me, God loves me (and so do my teachers), Jesus wants to be my friend forever. I hope no one would look down on me because i love being with "my" kids... I wouldn't trade them for any time in with the big kids. I believe that preschool teachers are some of the best teachers you will ever have because kids are such little sponges at that age you can just fill them up with information.

Laurie
06-13-2007, 01:00 PM
My son's preschool teacher (who was a darling) now has a kindergartener in our school building where I work. I remember telling her how much I appreciated all she had done for him when he attended her program. She came over to my desk and looked at a current picture of DS and had tears in her eyes.

I gave her a big hug and said, "That's why you were such a wonderful teacher....you REALLY cared." Now, I'm really glad that I shared that with her.

katieanne
06-13-2007, 01:17 PM
Education is often a state of mind. I've met lots of folks that have Harvard or M.I.T degrees and are so silly related to the real world. Mel, who ever teaches young children with the obvious HEART that you have is indeed an asset. Don't ever let anyone tell you differently. This world needs dedicated teachers.

grammea
06-16-2007, 02:16 PM
Dear Mel,
Thank you for saying what needed to be said for so very long.
I can tell,just by our friendship over the past couple of years that you were a great teacher for we have discussed our philosophies on child rearing and teaching.
All your students in and out of the classroom were blessed to have you.
I, too, feel that this is the most important time to reach them.
I taught in a private pre-school and in head start for years (government funded program for at risk and low-income children) Sadly most of the HS children I taught were the ones who received the least at home so what I taught them was extra special.
You're an advocate Mel,and I LOVE! having you in my corner and that of every pre school teacher out there who loves kids!!!!
Hugs and God bless,
Helen(grammea)